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Sunday, August 9, 2009

LIFE



I thought alot about this statement before I used it as the header for my blog. Over the last few days it has played in my thoughts over and over due to conversations I have had of late and events that have and are still overshadowing my life. The only conclusion I can come to is this.....I can not go back and change the past no matter how much I want to. There are many painfull things in the past that if I could have done differently or could change I would but the could of, would of, should of, if, ands and buts only keep life in a negative place. That is a place that no one should live or want to live. Life gives us experiences both good and bad so that we may gain knowledge and wisdom not so that we have to keep beating ourselves up over them. I have made a choice to everyday find the positive in life, to quit living in the past and allowing the negative to control me.

I know there are questions that need answers, rumors and inuendo that need truth, wounds and pain that need healing.....it has to start somewhere, so let it start with me. Let it start in goodness and love. Let it be a positive and nuturing healing for all those it touches.

2 comments:

Carole said...

What a beautiful thought. Let's a;; live in love and forgivenss. I love you very much and I am so happy for you to have this change in your life. Always and always.

Karen M. said...

I for one would love to have everyone get along and be the perfect family. It can start with one person, and it can be a positive thing, unfortunately it seems that all are not ready yet to be warm and fuzzy, it will take time, love, prayer, effort, and a lot of change. Thanks for sharing.